Post by Alison Williams
Tufts students at the recent Sex Fair answered questions about consent – how to do it and why to do. The summary: consent is sexy. Highlights from their responses include…
How do you feel when someone asks for your consent?
- I feel respected! Like wonder woman!
- I feel like they’re a nice person. It’s more of a turn-on
- Safe, respected
- I feel fully comfortable
- Valued and loved
What are some sexy ways to ask for consent?
- Hey, are you okay with me rocking your world tonight?
- Sexy can I?
- Baby are you tryna ride my love train to FUNKYTOWN?
- Wanna make a mango, guava smoothie tonight, baby?
- You put the sensual into consensual sex
- Do you feel comfortable?
- Would it be okay if I give you the best pleasure you’ve ever experienced?
Why is consent important?
- Consent is so important. Sex is zero fun without consent!
- Consent is important because it’s part of a healthy relationship
- It’s a way to show it’s more than physical
- It shows you care
How do you answer these questions? Send in your thoughts by commenting!